Pardon me, I didn’t mean to erase asexuals, demisexuals, or any other form of identity with what I was saying. It’s kind of hard to be all-inclusive when talking about a subject like this and trying not to write a short novel about my opinions.

It still remains a scientific fact that, while some people are not attracted to their partners merely with sex and claim asexuality, the most common form of attraction to a partner is through pheromones that our bodies put out and a match will pick up on. It’s not crap, it’s fact. It doesn’t apply for everyone, but it certainly applies on a large scale.

Chasers may exist, but why don’t you go ahead and give me your full definition of a chaser? Maybe I’m missing something here. Aside from the fact that being attracted to certain people for certain things is not scary, dangerous, fetishizing, or damaging in most cases, what’s wrong with having fetishes? The last time I checked, everyone is entitled to their sexual preferences, with what ever fetishes that may come with it or develop over time. That’s every person’s right. Just because trans* people exist and are gaining exposure to most of the world nowadays, does not mean in any way, shape, or form that other people are not allowed to have fetishes modeled after them. And who the hell are you to make that kind of statement and try to police what people are and aren’t allowed to be attracted to? Suffice to say, it’s far from your place to do so, because you are not everyone. You are one person.

-Elle